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This is a very contemplative and interesting conversation with a very dear and intellectual friend of mine who seemed somewhere confused with what is happening to her or around her… It made me want to share what thoughts came out of me while making her feel comfortable….A lil long chit-chat... but makes you think over... So, here it goes...............

ME: Anyways, Hows Life?

MY FRIEND: life sucks as always !!

ME: oh plz, Why r u saying so?

MY FRIEND: okay, remember u said...

It’s easiest to be happy

ME: yes...

MY FRIEND: how is it?

ME: just concentrate on the things that r good in ur life...

if anything is bothering u... try not to think about it

like yesterday few things were bothering me...

I preferred to think about something that is in a better situation in my life

have people around u that make u laugh n smile

the more u stay away from people... the more u tend to think about things that make u sad

MY FRIEND: But if you escape problem... You can’t find solution to it

ME: a problem and something that is bothering u r 2 different things

there r some things in life that u really cannot change

like... goin back in time...

remember one thing...

listen carefully...

never call a problem... a "problem"... u will never be able to solve it.....

instead...

call it a "situation"... u will be in a better position to tackle it...

got it..?

this makes me wanna write a blog on it...

:P

MY FRIEND: hmm
hw r u most times... cheerful...
keep people around happy...and enjoy everything

ME: u r talking about me?

MY FRIEND: yes

I’ve never been

from long times

ME: I don’t know... I just feel like... I might not get this moment again in life... why waste it...
I won’t disagree that when m alone... m always thinking about stupid things that I can’t change in my life...
but when m with people... I prefer I shud behave like an alter personality and just be a person knows how to enjoy every moment...
listen..
the more I will whine about things around me... the more I will stay quiet and into myslf..... the more I will lose people's interest in me...
they would always think... “why to talk to her, she is always complaining about something or the other"...
people might not want to be with me...
u getting me??
or u r asleep?

MY FRIEND: yes

but we don’t care about people

it doesn’t matter who r around... those who deserve will make an effort

 I like with family people... most of tyms coz...

ME: then what is the thing that is bothering u darling??

MY FRIEND: it’s like being safe

being with family is always best... coz they love u whatever

unconditional

ME: I knowww... but what is bothering you????

MY FRIEND: just I never comprehend that hw people r happy

hw they lead a happy life

I’ve never

ME: u think like that.... see... you r comfortable with the family... coz they love u unconditionally... so whenever u r with them... u r happy.... so obvsly u r leading a happy life...

MY FRIEND: no

ME: then?

MY FRIEND: its minimum necessity

I like being only with them...

ME: so what’s wrong in that?

MY FRIEND: m an escapist

probably...

ME: that’s your nature... don’t use negative terminology for urself...
it’s okay if u like it more with family...

MY FRIEND: not d nature

I don’t know how to be happy that's all

ME: listen... u r trying to be critical... don’t over-analyze ur life... u r in a very good position girl...
u don’t need to push urself in darkness saying that nothing makes u that happy.

don’t over-expect from life... u have a very good life...

I instead... start chilling out...

MY FRIEND: achievements satisfy me

MY FRIEND: achha

r u satisfied with ur life

ME: completely.... no....

I am almost 65%

MY FRIEND: r u satisfied with urself

ME: no... I know I can do better

MY FRIEND: den don’t u feel bad about it

ME: no... I feel good about the 65% than feeling bad about the 35%.... there is more of it to feel good about...
thou I try to raise that percentage...

MY FRIEND: I mean if ur not satisfied with urself

doesn’t make u unsatisfied

ME: there r some things that r out of MY control...

MY FRIEND: like??

ME: I either try in get them in my control... or wait for d rite time...
like.... m not that great in cooking and managing the house.... m trying.... okay... and.... like... I m not able to work right now due to paper work... so... n waiting for the rite time...

MY FRIEND: not like this

r u satisfied what u r now??

ME: in what sense r u saying...?

MY FRIEND: achievements

ME: if u r talking about the past...??

yes I m...

MY FRIEND: ya

ME: whatever I have so called "achieved"... or done in my past... was the best that could have happened to me... if it was good... it couldn’t have been better.... if it was bad, I at least know it was not worst...
and moreover... I cannot change it... instead I can manipulate what’s coming my way...
my present...
and my future

MY FRIEND: hmm... so u r an achiever

ME: see... I was not a topper in class n all that... not at all a sports person... but I don’t regret all that or feel bad about it... I feel good about other things that happened to be at the same time... like... enjoyed my school n clge life to the fullest... having great family n friends...

MY FRIEND: That’s hw exactly d difference comes...

I’ve never been... honestly...

people who get everything they want... or make best out of everything... r d one to

be happy. no matter how low their goals were

coz life is almost same for everyone...

if u make high aims or low... it’s equally struggling

it’s what u do there

ME: no sweets... life is never ever same for any two people in the entire world...

MY FRIEND: “It’s not about the shoes; it’s what you do in them. It’s about being who you’re born to be.” — MJ.
:P

ME: the circumstances... the nature... the background... everything is diffrnt
:D

MY FRIEND: yes... but it gives equal opportunities of happiness and sadness to their levels

ME: yeah... its wht u choose...

MY FRIEND: its abt dealin things

ME: see... its rightly said.... every coin has two sides... similarly.. everything that is coming ur way, comes with two options... its about which one u choose...

MY FRIEND: yaa ..

that what differentiates betwn achvrs n loozers

ME: see... according to me... NO ONE is a looser...

tht person did whtever he felt was right for him at tht moment... atlst he did wht his heart said...

good or bad... it was HIS choice

MY FRIEND: but if he regrets laterr

ME: he has no one to blame...

MY FRIEND: almost all times

he didnt gave his best

ME: maybe tht was how much his capability was...

but yes... one should not give up after tryin his fullest to a point whr he knows tht he wont regret about this later...

MY FRIEND: achha

I’ve got to go now..

 i'll catch u in sumtym..

ME: k
love u baby...

MY FRIEND: tak cre :)

love u tooooooooooo...

Bye :)

Sorry people if this bored u... :P